He's Not That Into You

A friend gave me a book yesterday, He’s not That into You, as a birthday gift. It’s a book that shows girls the signs when men are not really into them. Wake up and move on, that’s the idea of the book. It is also written that girls deserve men who care about them. Yip, why bother and cry all night long because of someone who doesn’t even think of you?

The question is, well ok. If I meet a man, then I find he’s not into me, I move on and find another one. That’s simple. What about this, what if the one who is really into me is a drama queen? What if he is not sane? I recall someone I met about 2 years ago. He didn’t only annoy me, but also my friends. He rang me almost every hour. He got upset if I couldn’t answer his calls. He sent hundred text messages daily. Few times he insisted to come to my place, even tho it was after midnight and no one invited him. No matter how many times I told him not to do it, he said that it would be fine for him to come to my place from his. He shouted at me when I didn’t answer his call or messages. He kept saying that it would be fine no matter how many times I told him that I wasn’t into him. He told his friends that I was his girlfriend. Well no doubt he was that into me. But does it mean I should be with him just because he’s really into me? No, I decided to accept his lunch invitation, grabbed chocolate coated ice cream he brought for me (just because I didn’t like him, doesn’t mean I didn’t like the ice cream) and told him how annoying he was.

Then…end of the story. I ignored his calls, messages and so on.

Dedicated for the one who gave the book. Just because he’s that into you, doesn’t mean we have to be that into him.